Watersports: more than just piss

Do you get excited about the thought of pissing on your partner? Have you done it yet or are you just curious?

If you are new to watersports than this post is for you.

Have a chat first to see if they are into piss

Some people like the idea – some may find it a turn-off. And starting to pee on your partner is not something you want to surprise them with mid-sex. So have a chat first and see what they think.

If they are not sure, you could suggest trying it in the shower first to see if they like it. It’s much easier to clean up and your partner may feel more comfortable.

Shower or not – hydration is key. Drink lots of water beforehand. Clear pee is much better and safer than concentrated urine, which can cause irritations.

Can I piss on my partner in bed?

You certainly can but preparation is key. Use a waterproof sheet and have lots of towels within easy reach. You might also like to have a think about splashes and how you might clean those up.

If that sounds like too much admin, then maybe sticking with the shower or the bathroom might be best. Or take it outdoors where cleanup isn’t such an issue.

Discuss boundaries: Why do you want to play watersports?

Knowing why you want to piss on your partner (or be pissed on) will help you decides those boundaries. So talk about it. Are you interested in it because it’s taboo, you like the sensation, or as a way to show your dominance (or submissiveness).

And once you know why you are into it, that will help guide both of you through the experience.

While we’re talking boundaries, make sure you are clear where the piss will go. Is the face and mouth off-limits? Do you want to feel the pee stream on your genitals and ass? Or just your upper body? How do you feel about your partner pissing in your vagina or ass? Is that something you want? Are you both going to piss on each other or just one? Talk about these scenarios before you start.

When the watersport has ended

As mentioned, cleanup is important and when you are all fresh and clean again, cuddles and kisses are a good way to wind down and reflect of what you liked and didn’t like. Will you do it again? What will you do differently next time?

Exploring piss

There are plenty of porn videos you can watch that feature watersports. Most of them follow the taboo or dom/sub route. But see what you can find and what appeals to you.

Exploring your fantasies

Maybe watersports isn’t for you but there are other sex activities you’d like to discover. Beducated has an online course called ‘Fantasy exploration’ which can help guide you through. You’ll develop a personalized erotic roadmap that honors your authentic desires and empowers you to create more fulfilling intimate connections.