Help me lose my virginity (safely) One of the questions I receive most often from…
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Sex lessons from Japan for gay and straight couples
What Western couples can learn from Japan-style sexuality and intimacy When people in the West…
Sex drive
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When women have high sex drives
While this post specifically covers women with high sex drives, most of the advice could…
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A vagina for every occasion
One question I get asked surprisingly often is about vaginas and whether different types are…
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Experience-driven intimacy: why couples are turning toward the “Special Container”
Experience-driven intimacy is one of the most quietly powerful trends right now because it isn’t…
Communication
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The art of erotic connection
In my practice, I often remind couples that erotic connection is not a trick you…
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Don’t let sexual pressure overwhelm you
Sexual pressure has a way of slipping into our bedrooms like an uninvited auditor, clipboard…
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How to rekindle erotic connection and keep it alive
When couples come to me saying “We’ve lost our spark,” I never see a broken…
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The art of porn: what I’ve learned the past 20 years
Whenever I tell anyone about my career as a porn producer, they always have a…
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The essential guide to cock sizes and shapes
Cocks of many shapes and sizes One of the most fascinating things about men is…