Spank me, baby

We all enjoy a light and playful slap on the ass from a loved, don’t we? Or is that just me? But what about more serious spanking, the kind that leaves your butt cheeks red and raw. Is that really pleasurable?

We decided to ask the folks at Beducated for the lowdown on spanking and here is what they said …

To enjoy spanking, there are several key elements to consider that can enhance your experience. Here’s a detailed breakdown:

1. Consent and Communication

• Mutual Consent: Ensure that both you and your partner are on the same page about engaging in spanking. It’s essential that both parties are excited and willing to participate.
• Open Dialogue: Have a conversation about your desires, boundaries, and what you hope to experience. This helps in setting the stage for a pleasurable encounter.

2. Setting Boundaries

• Define Limits: Clearly state what is acceptable and what is not. For example, you might say, “I want to be spanked, but please don’t use degrading language or slap my face.”
• Safety Words: Establish safe words to communicate during the experience. A common system is using “green” for go, “yellow” for slow down, and “red” for stop.

3. Understanding Intentions

• Erotic Intentions: Make sure that the spanking is initiated for mutual enjoyment and eroticism, not out of anger or frustration. Being clear about your intentions can enhance the experience.

4. Creating the Right Atmosphere

• Set the Mood: Create a comfortable and safe environment where both partners feel relaxed and can fully engage in the experience.

5. Focus on Sensation

• Let Go: If you’re the bottom, focus on surrendering to the experience. Pay attention to your breath and allow yourself to enjoy the sensations.
• Gradual Intensity: Start with lighter spanks and gradually increase the intensity based on your partner’s responses. This helps in finding that “just right” level of pleasure.

6. Aftercare

• Check-In: After the session, take time to check in with each other. Discuss what you enjoyed and any feelings that arose during the experience. This can help in building trust and intimacy.

For a deeper dive into the world of spanking, you might find this course helpful: Erotic Spanking.

What aspect of spanking are you most curious about?