Giving your man a blowjob
Blowjob is a misnomer
Truth is, blowjobs should be called suckjobs. Blowing on a penis while it’s in your mouth might feel sensual to your man but blowing ain’t going to produce the goods. Sucking will.
Blowing or sucking – it’s all about moderation and timing. And you don’t want to limit your man’s experience to one technique – you should mix it up.
Start slow. Real slow. Don’t be in any hurry to get his knob in your mouth. Let him wait. The anticipation will drive him wild.
Use your tongue to its full advantage. Run your tongue down his entire length, including the balls. Lick and tickle. Travel slowly. Go up and down several times but don’t include the head initially. Save the head until you are close to putting it between your lips. You want the moment your lips envelop his knob to be one he truly remembers. You want him to gasp when you do it.
When you do start on the tip of his cock, gently open the slit and put your tongue in to lick out the precum. Or wipe some on your finger and put it in your mouth. Slowly suck your wet finger.
When you do have his penis in your mouth, move down his shaft slowly. Let him feel your lips firmly around his throbbing dick and start sucking like you are drinking a thickshake. That’s not to say you have to suck the whole time – you shouldn’t. Suck intermittently when it matters most – and definitely close to orgasm.
Take a break occasionally – his dick doesn’t need to be down your throat the entire time. Maybe during those breaks you can focus on his balls, the perineum, his nipples, or if he wants, his anus. Slipping a finger in his boi pussy during oral, will take some guys over the edge – but make sure you ask beforehand.
There is a lot more to consider before, during, and after oral. Do some research (but use reliable, trusted sources), and certainly talk to your partner about what they want and might enjoy. Best not use porn as your training ground – what you see in porn is rarely useful except for getting horny.
Take a blowjob course
That’s right – there is a course you can take that will teach you everything you need to know and a lot more. And when it comes to trusted reliable sources, the team at Beducated are hard to beat (to use a wanking term!).
In their blowjob course, you’ll learn:
- 9 basic and advanced techniques for giving great oral
- how to deepthroat comfortably by using breathe and relaxation techniques
- to build your confidence during blowjobs by preparing your space and mind
- using follow-along exercises with a dildo, cucumber, or banana.
Master the art of a blowjob (and many other sex techniques) – Beducated
