Finding love or sex partners / part 4
Communicate openly for love
Communication is the key to any successful relationship. It helps you express your feelings, needs, and expectations, as well as understand those of your partner.
It also helps you resolve conflicts, build trust, and deepen intimacy. Without communication, your relationship will suffer from misunderstandings, resentment, and dissatisfaction.
Try these tips to communicate effectively
- Be honest and don’t lie or hide anything.
- Be respectful and don’t judge or insult.
- Be supportive and don’t dismiss or invalidate.
- Be empathetic and don’t blame or accuse.
- Be assertive and don’t be passive or aggressive.
Communicating for sex
Looking for sex online tends to be very transactional. And you say stuff, you would never dream of saying to someone in-person.
But that doesn’t mean you should chuck all your manners out the window. Yes, you can be direct and frank but don’t be a dick. The best thing to do is ask questions so you can see what interests your potential sex partner. The answers will quickly reveal if you’re likely to be a match.
Be cautious about sharing intimate photos – they could end up anywhere. But when you both feel comfortable sharing, that is a common step. Most people will at the least want to see your face – so be prepared for that.
You might there is very little chit-chat and you get straight to the point, or you might find your potential partner wants to suss you out – sometimes a lot. Be prepared to be open and honest – and don’t rush into meeting.
The same communication tips for finding love partners, apply here – be honest and respectful even if you are really both into the dirty talk.
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