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Dr Simone Keller
Simone is a certified sex therapist and clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience in intimacy and relationship therapy. After earning her doctorate, she trained in somatic sex education in London and mindfulness-based intimacy practices in Amsterdam. Simone specializes in helping couples rekindle erotic connection and navigate mismatched libidos, infidelity recovery, and sexual self-esteem. Her sessions blend evidence-based therapy with body awareness and sensual communication techniques. Simone likes to writes about authentic desire and emotional attunement. She says, “I love seeing clients rediscover pleasure, not just in sex, but in being fully alive with their partner.”
Dr Marcus Hall
Marcus is a licensed sex and relationship therapist with a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality Studies. He has worked in both private practice and clinical research, focusing on sexual performance anxiety, LGBTQ+ relationships, and intimacy counselling. Having lived and lectured across the U.S. and Canada, Marcus brings a frank, inclusive approach to sexual wellness. He likes to write about emotional safety, masculine vulnerability, and the evolving language of desire. “My goal,” he says, “is to help people replace shame with curiosity and performance pressure with genuine connection.”
Dr Ayumi Tanaka
Ayumi is a bilingual sexologist and relationship educator with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and postgraduate training in couples therapy. She has over a decade of experience guiding clients through cross-cultural relationship challenges, sexual identity exploration, and sensual communication. Her practice integrates Eastern philosophies of balance and mindfulness with Western therapeutic models. Ayumi’s work has taken her from Singapore to Seoul to San Francisco, offering workshops on erotic confidence and mindful touch. She likes to write about cultural attitudes toward pleasure and the art of erotic connection. “Every client teaches me something new about courage,” she says. “To explore desire is to explore what it means to be human.”
Troy Millard
Troy Millard is the founder and director of the erotic world website. A veteran (he’s been around) of the global adult entertainment industry, known for his rare combination of creative vision, technical mastery, and deep respect for sexual authenticity.
Based in Amsterdam, Troy has spent many years working with major international porn studios across Europe and the States, producing and directing hundreds of films celebrated for their artistry, inclusivity, and raw erotic realism.
As a talent agent, Troy represents some of the industry’s top male and female performers, guiding their careers with a focus on professionalism, sexual wellness, and brand sustainability. His agency bridges the worlds of film, live performance, and escorting, helping models and escorts alike refine their public personas and navigate the business side of pleasure work with confidence and integrity.
A sought-after educator, Troy also runs workshops for adult talent and couples, teaching advanced sexual positions, stamina control, and performance communication techniques. His training sessions—equal parts anatomical precision and erotic artistry—are known for turning good performers into unforgettable ones.
In addition to his on-set and coaching work, Troy likes to write about sex trends, performer care, and the shifting aesthetics of modern porn. “Sex is storytelling,” he says. “The camera doesn’t just record the act—it captures desire in motion. My job is to make that real.”